The parent’s part is to train them for life, to send them out of the home ready for whatever duty or mission God may have ready for them….What we want to do with our children is not merely to control them and keep them in order, but to implant true principles deep in their hearts which shall rule their whole lives; to shape their character from within into Christlike beauty, and to make of them noble men and women, strong for battle and for duty. They are to be trained rather than governed. Growth of character, not merely good behavior, is the object of all home governing and teaching. Therefore the home influence is far more important than the home laws, and the parents’ lives are of more moment than their teachings.
-J.R. Miller, Homemaking
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“trained rather than governed” such a hard thing for me to do!
“Growth of character, not merely good behavior, is the object of all home governing and teaching.” This is a good reminder for me. Thanks!
That quote is packed with wisdom. Looking forward to seeing your thoughts on it.
Wow what a wonderful quote so packed with wisdom. I had to reread it again and again just to make sure I understood it fully. How beautiful. Thank you for showing and I look forward to your comments.
Wow! What a true statement. Our influence is more powerful than our teaching. So convicting!
Really awesome quote. It is a good reminder, much like Christ’s words. He was always concerned with the heart, not just “good behavior.” A wonderful reminder to try to ensure our kid’s character lies so much deeper than outward behavior!
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